Sex Therapy

functional problems​

Performance Anxiety. Behind many sexual problems are deep-seated emotions that originate in negative past experiences. As time goes by these experiences  just build layer upon layer. There may or may not be issues such as past abuse, or trauma. It may have started with one or two bad experiences and the fear of failure can become an ongoing mindset. Whatever the core issue, none of these things are insurmountable and I am prepared to help you to move on from memory blocks and release triggers that may be preventing you from moving forward. It's all possible and most importantly that you are willing to believe that things can be different and that you can make permanent change for the better. I can support and help where a problem may stem from a physical issue that can create a psychological problem or vice versa. Medical tests may be needed to ascertain the source if it is physical and I'm able to help with emotional stress and help you find a resolution. 
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lack of desire

For both men and women there are times where we feel underwhelmed by sex and lack any kind of identifiable drive.  This is where you are out of touch with yourself and your body. Many issues may be involved and it's a matter of getting to what is really underneath it which usually involves emotion. You may be in a relationship or just out of one or not in a relationship at all. It doesn't matter.
What matters is you and your right to have sexual feelings as a part of what being human is about. Starting a conversation in itself can be cathartic and everything is possible if you are wanting to reignite your sexual drive and get in touch with yourself again. Hypnosis for rekindling and building desire for your partner can be very effective. Working together to unlock and open years of feeling blocked or repressed may use modalities such as EMDR, Havening Techniques, EFT/Matrix Reimprinting
Learn how to regain your control and to find inner balance. 

LGBTQIA+ clients may have concerns or issues and I can offer discrete and non judgemental counsel, whatever the issue.​

essential for health​

​​Sex is  important to our health and wellbeing even though it may not be given this kind of press. Having the forum for frank discussion without judgement or embarrassment is a good starting point. I'm happy to work with couples where there is a consensual arrangement and that includes heterosexual, LGBTQ couples.
 All LGBTQ clients are welcomed and this includes any transgender clients contemplating or going through sex change, where extra support and understanding is needed. 

trauma and abuse
Sometimes problems with sex have their beginning in some kind of trauma or abuse that occurred earlier in life. Hypnotherapy and EMDR are well designed for clients to be guided to safely revisit, resolve, reframe and reconstruct events from the past, erasing repetitive memories and freeing a new way forward.

Make contact via text or phone to arrange a chat or if you prefer, send me an email outlining your concerns. I provide confidential and non-judgemental counsel.
​Christina m. 07545453985
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